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Attempting to Resolve Difficult Matters

To save you a long and boring story which will be related to you after everything is done, my wife’s permanent residency is approved, but there’s a problem we’re dealing with. And also, customs charged us duty charges for one of our boxes. Used clothes and my daughter’s stuffed animals and dolls. Definitely asking for that money back! In the meantime, some amazing clouds!

  
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Japanese Customs that Are Shocking! (Or Not)

I recently read an article on Business Insider written by Asta Thrastardottir, someone who lives in Brooklyn. I don’t know her connection with Japan, or if she has any. She wrote this article to show Japanese customs that may shock foreigners.

Well, I wouldn’t say they’re shocking, nor would I even say they’re correct. Let’s take a look at these.  I’ll just provide a little commentary.

Number 4 is avoided at all cost.

The number 4 is pronounced the same as the word for “death” in Japanese. So, the 4th floor or room number 4 is considered unlucky. However, most buildings I’ve been in have a 4th floor. I’ve seen room number 4, as well. It’s not avoided at all cost. I think the 13th floor in North America is avoided more than the 4th floor is in Japan. Anyway, it is pretty true in hospitals. No one wants to stay on the death floor.

Blowing your nose in public is considered rude.

I think this goes for pretty much anywhere. It’s considered rude, and most people sniff. They sniff constantly. That gets annoying, too. But one thing I find is that younger people will blow their noses.

Tipping can be seen as insulting.

I’ve never seen anyone do this, so I don’t know the reaction, though I have heard it’s more likely that the server will run after the person to give the money back, thinking it’s a mistake.

Walking and eating is seen as sloppy.

Nice to see they mention that it’s okay to eat ice cream on the street.  This is generally quite true. Not sure why this is shocking, though. And while it’s frowned on to eat on a train, for long distance trains, they sell food. You can eat. On local trains, I’ve also seen people snack on food.

In Edmonton, it’s actually illegal to eat or drink on the LRT or bus. You can be fined.

There are designated people who will push you into a crowded subway car.

Not anymore. They don’t want to risk someone touching a woman and have her sue. It’s simply not done anymore for that reason. And also, there’s the possibility of injury.

People will sleep on the trains with their head on your shoulder.

I’ve seen this often. It happens. Lots of people sleep on the trains, and when their head lands on someone’s shoulder, they just try to ignore it. I think the best example of this is when I saw a junior high school girl fall asleep and her head was resting on a middle-aged businessman’s shoulder.

There are toilet slippers for the bathrooms.

Yes. They do this in many Japanese restaurants and izakaya, as well as any business where you’re asked to remove your shoes and wear slippers. Even where I work!

You must always bring a host a gift.

It’s extremely common. But I’m not sure how this is shocking, because it’s common to bring a gift, like wine or something, to a party you’re invited to in Canada.

Pouring your own glass is considered rude.

Depends on the situation, but this is something that is often true. Though I think it’s more courtesy when someone pours your glass, I have seen many people pour their own glass.

Slurping your noodles is not only seen as polite – but it also means you have enjoyed your meal.

This is true. It’s normal to slurp your noodles in Japan. I don’t do it, because whenever I’m eating noodles, I’m often at lunch from work, and I haven’t perfected my slurping. If I try, I’ll get the soup on my shirt.

I have to make one extra comment about the temperature of the noodles. They are so hot that they can burn. People also eat them so fast, a big bowl in only 5 minutes, that they’re at risk for throat or esophageal cancer. The hot soup and noodles can damage the esophagus so much if eaten frequently that cancer has been known to develop (told to me by a doctor).

Sleeping in capsule hotels in rooms barely bigger than a coffin is very common.

They are common near train stations, and they are used when people miss the last train. Quite often, women are not allowed. A good alternative is a manga or internet cafe, which have private booths with either a chair and computer or a sofa, computer, and TV. They even have showers and free drinks.

My verdict on this article is that it’s not shocking at all. Some of these things are a little surprising, while others are not at all surprising. And some are no longer true, such as the subway pushers, unless they exist somewhere other than Tokyo. I’ve been on the subway in Tokyo during rush hour where people push themselves into the train. Can’t get on? Well, they wait.

I think what shocks me is when I’ve been in a store for an hour and they’re still welcoming me to the store. Or the incredibly profound and rather embarrassing apology for getting my order at McDonald’s mixed up with another customer’s. The manager came out while we were surrounded by many customers and apologised so strongly with a deep bow. I felt a little self-conscious in that situation. I was already rather conspicuous, being the only foreigner in there.

If you’ve been to Japan, is there anything that has surprised you? Or how about any other countries? Let me know in the comments.